Gertrude’s commentary: Who would have thought a woman like myself would end up with the love of her life? By myself, I mean someone who cherishes their independence and views marriage as the act of surrendering your respect. I certainly would be the last to expect it. You would think that it would be so easy for me to write something like this, especially coming from someone who loves to write — but no. I spent months on end, back to back, thinking of what to say on that very special day. I even sought out Fanny for advice, knowing she had already written hers. I will never tell Edward…